The importance of personal time
I 'going to be selfish for this post. I'm going to write about me. Do not worry, I'm not going to bore you with the details of my favorite food, hobbies or shoe size. Instead, I will assume that a couple about why you take to speak to a break, can be a good thing, when you are traveling. Yes, I speak of this popular slogan, "me time."
said last month, as Anthony wrote about traveling as a couple from the heart and really hit the nail on the head, which couples journey. It's about the experiences and memories that you create together, and it is to be a unit and to share your adventures.
While all this is true, I thought it was important to mention that while he, a successful relationship in the street but a consequence of compromise, communication and understanding, another important factor that takes the time to do things that are just for you.
Without trying too much to sound like a TV talk show host and said, "You go, girl You deserve Make it all about you be doing it for yourself!! "I think it's true that things do for themselves in order can cause twice as many benefits for a few. each to be selfish once in a while can be a good thing.
Why is "me time" important to my relationship?
Life on the road is different from life at home. Regular routines or structure are to things of the past. You have to work to communicate and solve problems together, while the new environment to navigate frequently. While Ant and I do most things together, we have days where we need our own place. Sometimes we just need our own thing to do, whether to sit with our iPod on the beach or do off alone on a hike.
Ant got the chance to go spear fishing, the other day, the left me to do all day alone, as I wanted. Was I boring? Am I lonely? No, I spent the day spoil me! I washed my hair, gave me a great mani and pedi and then lost in a good novel. I even went to a local store and stocked up on chocolate.
Taking time away from your partner and do what you want for yourself gives you time to relax and recharge their batteries, which only helps your relationship. You have made your own thing, so you'll be ready to listen now, be a compromise and a loving partner with even more confidence.
I think some arguments that Ant and I had just done, because we didn 't have enough separate room. Everyone has their own personal space. taking some time to go on your own to explore, read a book, or do an activity, to solve some problems, can really before to bubble they start at the surface.
In addition, "me time" does not necessarily mean "alone time." it can often mean other travelers hang, and it may be a great opportunity to socialize with other and leave you and your partner in different environments interact.
While Ant and I really do love and enjoy each other's company, we also enjoy other people to meet from around the world. Often we will have a few drinks with fellow travelers and hardly talk to each other all night. We are committed to lost in other people's stories.
for himself to take time, so is a good thing, but what makes "me time" more enjoyable being able to tell the day. The day after Ant of spearfishing returned, it felt like we had not seen each other! We were so excited to chat, what we had done! We chatted and laughed about our adventures at night over a bottle of wine and some freshly grilled fish, the Ant had caught. It was just as exciting as when we go out and do something together, and it helped the energy and enthusiasm keep our relationship going.
Do not be afraid to ask your partner if your own thing to do for a while. they want Chances too!
Elise completes the couple Positive World Travel, and enjoys sharing her adventures with Anthony. You will do more of their own thoughts and feelings, why couples travel only is so special. So Elise & Anthony followed their continuous journey, head to their website or to their community on Facebook.
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